Make Your Next Orgasm the Biggest, Best Ever
If you're a woman in search of an out-of-this-world orgasm, try some techniques that sexperts swear by. If you're a man, orgasms are usually "a given" with direct stimulation of your penis, says sex therapist Laura Berman, Ph.D., but a man's orgasm can also reach new heights.
Trigasm: Three Times the Excitement
Tell your partner where you prefer the focus, sex experts recommend, and whether you favor a lighter or firmer touch with a finger, tongue or sex toy. Then, take a chance at tripling your sexual pleasure let your mate in on the "trigasm" technique, recommended by sexologist Ava Cadell, Ph.D. (better known as Dr. Ava).
A trigasm, which Dr. Ava calls the "ultimate orgasm," results from simultaneous arousal of the clitoris, G spot and anus. Experiment with various ways your partner can stimulate the three spots at the same time, using different combinations of his tongue, forefingers and penis (a vibrator can also play a part) to accomplish the triple touch. You can even achieve three times the stimulation by yourself, using your imagination and letting your fingers, maybe helped by a vibrator, do the feeling.
Two Out o' Three Ain't Bad in Bed
Dr. Ava's bigasm best-bet is a technique called the Venus Butterfly. It's an age-old favorite, first practiced in India around 3000 B.C., that employs simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the G spot, which can result in an explosive orgasm.
A trigasm results from simultaneous arousal of the clitoris, G spot and anusDr. Ava